It’s really unfortunate that something so emotionally taxing and heart breaking also has to come with so much bureaucratic and administrative headaches. But when you’re looking to dissolve your marriage, it becomes a legal matter and with that there are some important things to consider.
Even the most amicable of divorces require a bit of negotiation that can make for heated situations.
It’s best to be prepared and make sure your best foot is forward when you enter into divorce proceedings.
Below is some information on the benefits of being the first one to make a move when it comes to filing for divorce and what you can expect from the process.
Is there an actual benefit to filing for divorce first?
It’s not just an urban legend or something played up in dramas. Being the one to begin divorce proceedings gives you a big advantage over the situation as it unfolds. For starters, filing first means that you control the location where the divorce will take place, so if you and your spouse have been separated and you live in two different states, you can file where it is most convenient for you, and your spouse will be forced to continue proceedings in that location.
Filing first also gives you the ability to “start the clock” as it were. There’s a lot of time constraints and deadlines that get imposed when divorce proceedings start which can put you at a disadvantage if you’re not quick in your due diligence and paperwork. Getting all that done and then kicking off the process is a huge benefit.
Do I need an attorney for my divorce?
While you always have the option to represent yourself, it’s highly recommended you get a licensed divorce lawyer to represent you and your interests in your divorce case, especially if your spouse also has a lawyer. And if you file for divorce first, that means you get a jump on hiring professional help and someone to walk you through the process from the beginning which allows you to put your best foot forward.
How do I plan for filing for divorce first?
Do your planning quietly to prevent any financial, emotional, or physical retaliation from your spouse. Figure out if you’d like to fight to keep your shared home or if you’d be willing to move, decide if you want full, partial, or no custody of your children. Get your financial documents in order and get all your paperwork prepared. If you’ve already hired a divorce or family law attorney, this part will be much easier.
Additional Questions
Is there a way I can boost my financial situation to prepare for a divorce?
If you plan on filing for divorce you can open a line of credit for yourself as well as bank accounts only in your name where you can start depositing a savings. This will be especially important if divorce will be a financial hardship on you. It’s also good to protect your finances as spouses who suspect a divorce is coming may attempt to drain shared accounts.
How much does a divorce lawyer cost?
Divorce lawyers tend to work on an hourly cost and may require a retainer to “book” their services. Every divorce attorney is going to have different prices so do your research and ask questions. On average expect a few thousand dollars at a minimum.
If you are ready to make the first move or have questions about divorce, the Law Offices of Rappleye & Rappleye in Jackson Michigan can help. Our 60+ years of experience in all areas of family law and divorce issues lends for a divorce process guided with compassion, knowledge and expert negotiating. Explore your options and know your rights. Call and schedule a Free Consultation today.